Monday, November 17, 2008

Interracial Dating in America Uncovered

This video says it all......... Most of the people in the video seemed to be very representational of the larger populations of which they belong. Take the first african american woman talking for example. She is talking about an issue that is very common. Many of the African American women who speak on this issue refer to the tendency the more successful and affluent African American men in this society dating white women. The arguement is that these men come from the same spot as the women in their community. Why not reach back and involve the African American women in the success. Whether or not this is the case, this is a common argument.

Looking at the next couple. The white female with the black male. They talk about the questions they get asked. How many kids does they guy have? Does he have a job? Is there domestic violence involved? What does this mean. This means number one, that all black men are out fathering all these kids and not working and they all hit the white women they are with. Clearly this is not the case. Number two, they are implying that any white woman who would be with a black man obviously is not capable of picking good men and being in a healthy relationship. They have no respect for themselves, they get taken advantage of, and they are sluts. This is all ridiculous.

The video shows a white guy thats pissed that the black men are taking all the white woman. Also, the Black man that saw porn growing up, but only ever saw white women shown in the porn. Society is saying that only white is sexy, white is what is beautiful. Many men growing up being taught this ridiculous notion that white woman and beautiful are synonymous. Like there are no other options even though there are beautiful black women, asian women, latina woman and etc. all over the world. You name the place, there are beautiful people there. With all the different races in this country, how are we still so narrow minded?

I could go on forever abotu the issues this video touches on but it speaks for itself........watch it.

2 comments:

Morenita said...

This video represents the many thoughts many have over interracial dating. Some like the lady at the beginning think that they are leaving and not coming back to the community. Even though many feel this way I think the man who was exposed to pornography at a young age has a point. Society has always given us the white image and nobody of color. Growing up I remember that I enjoyed reading Children books about little Native American girls because they were the only stories I could relate to. The majority of the stories included white or African American children and no Latinas. Therefore I became infatuated with Native American culture and their traditions. They were light brown, had dark brown eyes, and straight black hair. We are only exposed to one race and one color therefore that man began to fantasize over white girls.

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