Saturday, November 29, 2008

Loving



Mildred and Richard Loving were indicted and pleaded guilty to violating Virginia's 1924 Racial Integrity Act.
For marrying the only man she ever loved, Mildred Loving was arrested, convicted and banished from her home state.
The Commonwealth of Virginia handed down such punishments in the 1950s to couples whose love the state did not sanction: She was black; her husband, Richard, was white; and their union was prohibited by law.
The marriage could have collapsed under the hammer of Jim Crow. Instead, the Lovings' challenge of the law led to a Supreme Court ruling in 1967 that toppled bans on interracial marriages nationwide.
For Mrs. Loving, the issue was always simple: "I think marrying who you want is a right no man should have anything to do with," she said in a 1967 segment of "ABC News." "It's a God-given right."
Mrs. Loving, 68, died of pneumonia May 2 at her home in Central Point, Va., said her daughter, Peggy Fortune.
In 1958, when the Lovings were arrested, laws supporting segregation were falling, but half of the states still had anti-miscegenation laws, said Peter Wallenstein, a professor of history at Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University in Blacksburg, Va. Those laws deprived Americans of the most intimate of decisions: who could be their spouse.
"This was the last piece — and it was a big piece — in the whole structure of Jim Crow," Wallenstein said.
In Virginia's Caroline County, where Mildred Jeter was born July 22, 1939, a 1691 statute outlawed marriage between whites and nonwhites. An 1878 law introduced a penalty of up to five years in prison and a clause: Those who married out of state, then returned to Virginia, would be treated the same as those who had married in the state.
The Lovings had done just that. The couple drove to Washington, D.C., married on June 2, 1958, then returned to Caroline County, where they moved in with Mrs. Loving's parents.
The Lovings woke up about 2 a.m. one July night to see the sheriff and deputies surrounding their bed, shining flashlights.
Richard Loving rushed to show the men their marriage license. The sheriff was not moved. "That's no good here," he said.
"They told us to get up, get dressed. I couldn't believe they were taking us to jail," Mrs. Loving said.
The Lovings were indicted and pleaded guilty to violating the 1924 Racial Integrity Act, another version of the state's anti-miscegenation law. Judge Leon Bazile sentenced the couple to a year in jail but suspended the sentence for 25 years on the condition they leave the state and not return together during that time.
The Lovings moved to Washington, D.C. In 1963, Mrs. Loving wrote to then-Attorney General Robert F. Kenney and asked for his help. The Justice Department referred the couple to the American Civil Liberties Union.
The Lovings' case landed at the Supreme Court. On June 12, 1967, the court ruled 9-0 that Virginia's laws were aimed at white supremacy, were unconstitutional and violated the 14th Amendment.
The couple moved back to Virginia. In 1975, Richard Loving was killed by a drunken driver in a car accident. Mildred Loving, who never remarried, died one month shy of what would have been her 50th wedding anniversary.
In addition to her daughter, she is survived by a son, Sidney Loving, of Tappahannock, Va.; eight grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren. A son, Donald, died in 2000.




Mildred and Richard Loving were some of the most influential people and advocates for rights within interracial relationships. Without their courage and fight, it is tenative whether or not the rights of interracial couples would be what they are today. For this reason, I felt it necessary to honor the passing of Mildred Loving on May 2nd of this year.

Although, Mildred and Richard are no longer alive, their message is still heard around the country and many people have liberties due to their story.

The message that the Lovings left behind was not only relevant to those in interracial relationships, but to anyone fighting for the right to live their lives of their own accord.
Many people have compared their case to the cases of the same sex couples currently fighting for equal rights and recognized marriage. They are inspiring to to those who feel that things cant change and those who want to give up after many harsh objections and sacrifices that have seemingly been for nothing. Because they didnt give up and were willing to sacrifice to be treated with respect, it is evident that with perserverance and will, anything is possible.

One thing is true in this country: history always repeats itself and no change is impossible. If we can look back on people like the Lovings, even in their death, we can find hope for change and the will to continue fighting for whatever requires it.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Interracial Dating in America Uncovered

This video says it all......... Most of the people in the video seemed to be very representational of the larger populations of which they belong. Take the first african american woman talking for example. She is talking about an issue that is very common. Many of the African American women who speak on this issue refer to the tendency the more successful and affluent African American men in this society dating white women. The arguement is that these men come from the same spot as the women in their community. Why not reach back and involve the African American women in the success. Whether or not this is the case, this is a common argument.

Looking at the next couple. The white female with the black male. They talk about the questions they get asked. How many kids does they guy have? Does he have a job? Is there domestic violence involved? What does this mean. This means number one, that all black men are out fathering all these kids and not working and they all hit the white women they are with. Clearly this is not the case. Number two, they are implying that any white woman who would be with a black man obviously is not capable of picking good men and being in a healthy relationship. They have no respect for themselves, they get taken advantage of, and they are sluts. This is all ridiculous.

The video shows a white guy thats pissed that the black men are taking all the white woman. Also, the Black man that saw porn growing up, but only ever saw white women shown in the porn. Society is saying that only white is sexy, white is what is beautiful. Many men growing up being taught this ridiculous notion that white woman and beautiful are synonymous. Like there are no other options even though there are beautiful black women, asian women, latina woman and etc. all over the world. You name the place, there are beautiful people there. With all the different races in this country, how are we still so narrow minded?

I could go on forever abotu the issues this video touches on but it speaks for itself........watch it.